Five Tips to give a mind-blowing Blow Job
The Art of Fellatio - How to give him an unforgettable oral sex pleasure
Men love getting head - there’s no doubt about it. Whether you are looking to spice up your bedroom routine, or extend sexual foreplay, or reward him for something sweet that he has done for you, a fellatio is what men craves the most. Our sex education in school probably mention this quickly in passing but may have skipped the details. But fret not: here are 5 awesome tips that is sure to blow his mind while you’re blowing his manhood.
The Wetter, the Better
No man wants a chafed member so the idea is to have lots of lubrication, either in the form of your spit or a lotion. In other words, wetness is key. Saliva tends to dry out very quickly so you may want to consider using an oil-based lotion, or even olive oil. For added fun consider getting a minty lubricant, or prepare a lotion that is either slightly warmed or chilled to catch him by surprise.
Positioning for total access
Whether you like to go in-between his legs or move around his body, or do a 69, the idea is to adopt a position that you will feel comfortable, and more importantly avoid a sore neck. The right position will also allow you more flexibility and easy access to his entire genital area. If both of you are game, try some anal play too: lightly lick the opening in a circular motion with a pointed tongue, or rim him by licking the entire anal opening from top to bottom, like an ice cream cone, with a big flat tongue.
Let him watch and hear you
One kinky trick is to let him watch you perform oral sex on him. A good idea is to have mirrors on the ceiling so he can maximise his fellatio fantasies, or have him stand up, and you kneel down for an aerial view. Besides the warm and moist fondling with your mouth, men also love the erotic slurping sounds you make as well. Moaning triggers neurological sensory pleasure that also contributes to sexual arousal, especially when it lets him know how much he’s turning you on, which is the ultimate turn-on for him.
Dont forget about the base of his penis and his nuts
While the penis glans and frenulum are sensitive g-spots, do not neglect other parts of his genital that can be just as arousing. Besides fondling, sucking or licking his shaft, you can also try to mimic a cock ring using your thumb and index finger to form a snug fit around the base of the penis and alternating between pulsating pressure and squeezing to restrict the blood flow thereby intensifying his sensation. When handled properly, his family jewels can also lead to loads of intense pleasure: cup your hand over his scotum, or hold his testicles seperately as you would an overly ripe fruit in each hand, and gently pull downward while you’re sucking on or deep-throating him.
Maximise the foreplay arousal
Teach him the real purpose of foreplay, and take your time to tantalize and arouse him thorougly. Try a combination of these techniques: kiss his inner thighs, whisper ‘I want you inside my mouth’, or slapping his shaft against your cheeks and lips, or lick his pubes, and the scrotal area. The best part about receiving a blow job is the way it can mess with him mind, and the ease and variety of ways in which you can tantalize, lick, fondle, tease, and arouse him as you will have access to almost all his sensitive spots there. You can control the strength and height of his arousal and stimulate him till he begs for more or starts to leak pre-cum. Whether you let him finish inside your mouth or face, it is crucial that you continue to stroke his penis until he’s completely empty once he starts ejaculating.