Bored With Sex?

Bored With Sex? Resurrect The Spark In Your Sex Life!
Cant wait to go to bed cos you are tired and sleepy or are you looking forward to rip you partner’s clothes off for some mind-blowing sex? tengatango.com offers these time tested tips to revive dead passions and bring sexy back.

1. Do not go to bed angry
Frustrating events during the day can kill the mood and invade your bedroom. Learn effective stress management techniques to cope with daily stresses and demands of life so you can enjoy each other’s company at night.

2. Change your attitude
Many couples accepts that boredom is inevitable. Other couples stop themselves from believing this as a fact. If you think that sex and intimacy is too much work, perhaps you would be better of as a single. Bottom-line: your attitude matters! If you expect your partner to perceive you as sexy, you must maintain your interest in your own sexuality.

3. Keep working on it
A healthy, happy and sexually stimulating relationship with your partner can take years to develop, be patient with yourselves - afterall, you have got a lifetime to perfect your bedroom skills.

4. Stay fit
Physical attraction is essential to turn each other on so make it a point to stay fit. Exercises will also flood your body with hormones that were released in your body which will make you hornier at night. Stay sexy and take every chance to impress your partner with you well toned body and heightened sense of self confidence.

5. Leave work out of the bedroom
Draw a line between your work life and your sexual life. Do not discuss work or stressful events of the day. Deal with them at dinner time instead and make provisions to relax and unwind just before bed so you are more receptive for sex.

6. Do not be too friendly with your partner
Treat your friends well but your partner better! At least it should be more than what can be found in a platonic relationship. If your partnership sways too much in the direction of friendship, there is a good chance that sexual boredom will set in. Remember to lavish more affection on your partner and make him / her feel special! Maintain high sexual, physical, and emotional connections, and do things that the “friend” side of your partner will not expect.

7. Take sex out of the bedroom
Be spontaneous and keep your partner guessing. How about sex on the kitchen floor or counter, or have an unexpected quickie in a quiet carpark. Initiating sex in different locations - even with a remote chance of being discovered - will take sex to a new level.

8. An element of surprise
In addition to changing the ‘place’, it is also a good idea to change your pace. The trick is to keep your partner guessing. If you had been doing it ’slow and steady’ do a ‘wow wild west’ for a change and treat your partner to a new sexual adventure that has nothing to do with romance but just savage / raw sex. Explore anal sex, or try bondage… just don’t be afraid to try new things.

9. Play with toys
Sex toys are a great help when it comes to role-play fantasies that may not be feasible in the real life. For instance, you may use a TENGA masturbation cup to tease (or torture) your man, and use it on him for passionate quickies, or as extended foreplays to drive him mad with intense orgasms. Honestly, with the wide array of toys available, there’s really no reason to succumb to boredom in the bedroom.

Final note - Try something out of the ordinary once in a while to break the routine and your partner will be anything but bored with you for years to come. The emotional and physical closeness of sex will strengthen the intimacy and closeness that only you can offer to your partner.