Masturbation and sex are excellent ways to experience a joy that is personal and highly intimate. Use these tips and make this resolution to make pleasureable orgasms a priority for yourself this year -
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1. Strive for a whole body experience
Sex and masturbation is not just about achieving orgasm - it is an intense emotional and physical experience for the entire body, and it includes all the pleasure that precedes the final ending. Take your time to explore what turns you on, what turns your partner on, what works, and what doesnt. Learn how to tease each other… be cheeky, be imaginative, try something new for variety, seek new ways to derive and provide pleasure for yourself and/ or your partner.
Allow your consciousness to move from your mind to your body and to that of your partner’s. Feel the connection as your sexual energy move from within your being to your genitals when you masturbate. Focus only on the sexual union with your partner, free your mind from all other thoughts, and let the sexual energy flow freely between the two of you.
2. Manage guilt to improve satisfaction
Deal with guilt and all other negative feelings and make sure they dont interfer with the job at hand. Shame and guilt associated with sex can be a damper, so talk it over with your partner, or a professional and deal with these feelings once and for all.
Focus on the postivie aspect and appreciate your sexuality even while masturbating. Masturbation and sex should be emotionally and physically satisfying. Stop all the negative thoughts as you masturbate as it self-defeating! Nothing else can come close to the estascy, satisfaction, and joy derived from an intense orgasm.
3. Take time to create awesome orgasms
Orgasms take time to achieve. Experiment with different strokes, different TENGA cups, penetration positions, arousal techniques for self-pleasuring, new foreplay methods… these takes time to learn and perfect. The human body is a wonderful and complex work of art and the better you understand yours (and/ or your partner’s), the easier it will be to arouse yourself/ your partner, to bond with your partner, to last longer in bed, and to improve the entire sexual experience. Remember there’s a lot to learn but it will be worth it so start practicing.
4. Go slow
The sex experts at tengatango.com recommend that you go slow to make masturbation and sex more enjoyable. The main reason is that it will allow you to last longer and ultimately the resultant orgasm will be more intense. Make the effort to create the mood, take it slow even at the foreplay and arousal stage, control your breathing, tease each other, blindfold yourself.
Dont rush into it - rather, appreciate what is going through your mind: an erotic thought? A scandalous affair or a lustful encounter in the past? Ejaculated semen hitting you in the eye? The excitment of being caught masturbating or having sex in a public place?
Try varying the stroke as your masturbate, or wary the way you penetrate your partner. For instance, slip your penis into your partner slowly and deliberately, and then pause, or pause mid-way during the insertion. Whatever it is, the idea is to feel every sensation as it should and you will experience sex for both of you, and the joy and pleasure of masturbation in a whole new way.
5. Relax
Anxiety or the eagerness to please can kill passions in bed. If you constantly feel strong pressure to perform well, these anxious thought will definitely affect your performance. Overcome these unrealistic demands and free your mind. Concentrate instead on proper breathing techniques, or even breathe deeply to calm yourself. Deep breathing during sex can also be highly erotic especially if it is in rhythm with your partner’s, and it may even help you to last longer in bed.
Remember, if you are physically relaxed you will be in a better mood to enjoy the experience and naturally you will be a better sex partner!
When you are masturbating, concentrate on the task at hand (pardon the pun!) and breathe deeply to feel the connection between mind, body, and soul for a unforgettable experience and a mind-blowing orgasm. If you are using a TENGA cup or the fliphole, try to feel the intricate designs of the cup’s interior on the different parts of your penis, and the sensations you are experiencing. Experiment with different speed, directions, pressures, and strokes to make the most of the most infamous sex toy in the world.
Have a sexy 2010,
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