It’s the weekend and you are in the mood for some hot sex but some how your partner isnt the least interested. While you sulk and wonder “what the hell is happening”, make the most of the situation and deal with the persistent hard-on you have been having the whole day by some solo fun with yourself using the Tenga masturbation cups or the Tenga Egg
It may sound lame but perhaps this is also one good reason to try out your next sex position on the Tenga Fliphole or Fliplite. More importantly, understand what you can do to remedy the situation and not to make it worst!
1. Use of certain medications
The use of certain medicines, such as oral contraceptives or antidepressants, can kill the sex drive.
If you suspect that your partner’s medication is the culprit, see if the doctor can recommend alternative medications that has lesser side effects, or if the dose can be reduced without affecting the drug’s effectiveness.
And if those does not help, try scheduling bedroom fun around the dose instead.
2. Insomia and Stress
For many of us, a good night sleep is a luxury especially given our hectic lifestyle. Besides making us feeling lethargic and irritatable, lack of sleep can damper one’s sex drive too.
Financial issues, work pressures, deadlines, family conflicts, and other demands of life can easily overwhelm a person, and cause one to loose all interest in sex.
However, some people do turn to sex as a healthy form of release from stress.
You may want to coax your partner gently. It will also be a good idea to learn some handy massage tricks to get your partner into the mood. For added fun, use the TENGA Egg Lotion or any of the Hole Lotions on your partner.
So if you manage to reactive the sexual response in your partner, you are ready to take things to the next level. Hmm…
3. Fear of Intimacy or commitment
Yes it is true. The threat of being too involved with another person may cause withdrawal in some individuals.
Some people just need to have more private space, or may feel threatened at the rate of involvment or feels that they are ready for more physical contact, or find that there is too much contact too soon.
Whatever the reason, the last thing you want to do is to thrown a tantrum.
If your partner prefers to be left alone once in a while, you may want to have some hobbies to keep yourself occupied for those time. Perhaps you can use this to your advantage and start a new hobby of having the most complete set of TENGA collection - a very practical hobby for any man. Sweet!
Conclusion
So there you have it. The top 3 reasons why you are not having enough sex, and what you can do about it.
Despite the temptation to blame it on your partner, you just may want to consider investing on a handy and trusted TENGA sex toy from tengatango.com instead. At least one of you will be happy tonight.
