TENGA by tengatango.com

Do you agree to the following statements:

1. Men are unable to control their sex drives.

2. Sex equals performance and that is all that counts.

3. It is the individual who is responsible for getting and receiving sexual pleasures every time.

4. Men need sex - lack of sex causes major physical problems.

tengatango.com is established to offer Tenga sex toys for men, and for those who love them. But more importantly, tengatango.com is committed to improve his quality of sex life.

Feeling good about yourself - your body, your environment, your sexuality and your relationship is essential for being sexually healthy. And Tenga has a major role to play in all that! If you had used or been using the Tenga sex toys, you would have realised that they are more than just a tool for an orgasm. You would have noticed this about the masturbators - they are good for your penis and gives your manhood a good workout.

For those who are reading about Tenga for the first time, you will be amazed with the huge amount of time, energy, and passion that goes into this simple yet elegant sex toy - which even led some to think of Tenga as the alternative to the Zen-looking iPhone or iPad from Apple.

Not surprizingly, these comparisions are not exaggerations too. First, Tenga designed are ergonomical (this means that they provide superior / exact fit to the shape, size, curvatures, level of sensitivity to the penis). This is also the reason why and how the Tenga masturbators are able to offer the precise simulation for the penis and thereby give pleasure that were previously not possible.

If you have been following tengatango.com ’s development over the years, you would also have noticed just how concerned we are about the male sexual health and how we try to address sexual problems and challenges so that men can enjoy better sexual satisfaction and eliminate misconceptions about sex and sexuality.

As part of our renewed focus, we will be launching new initiatives to enable the goals that we have set out for ourselves. Watch this space for more.

If you have specific ideas on what we can do to improve, or questions regarding any of the Tenga products we are offering for sale, drop us a note. We love to hear from you.

Thank you.

Sex surveys revealed more about our sexual behaviour and expectations in ways that usually surprise us. While many of us would like to think that we are ‘normal’ or that the other person is just as sexually happy like us, the reality often is not as simple as it seems.

A recent study condensed a list of signs that would suggest a person may not have a happy sex life even if he were already married, partnered, attached, or seeing someone special.

Signs of a low sex marriage / partnership:

• Sex have become a chore
  Somehow the magic is gone and you are having sex just to get it over with. At some point in time, you actually prefer a visit to a dentist than to have sex. When you partner says that urgent work matters had cropped up or will be away for an extended period of time, you are actually happy. Often, it seems that you are the only one who wants to have sex because your spouse /partner doesn’t show any interest in sexual intimacy at all.
• You have sex only when it is on the schedule
  To accomodate your partner’s and your busy schedule, you have both scheduled when to have sex. This became necessary as you (or your partner) feels that sex can be very distruptive to your otherwise busy life. You (or your partner) may (or may not) look forward to the one or or two times per month.
• There is little / no intimacy even when you were making love, or after you made love
  Sex is so routine that you are amazed you still manage to perform it without doozing off. There is little surprise and you can almost get your partner off precisely when you want him or her to as you became too familar with his / her body or bodily response. And almost immediately after sex, you both get back to doing what you were doing. Life goes back to normal again.
• Sexual fantasies about your spouse / partner are non-existent
  Unlike the past when you would have wild fantasies about your partner, you now fantasize about other people. Other people, other than your partner, are sexually stimulating and you wonder what sex with them will be like. But almost immediately you felt guilty. There is no sense of adventure or spontaneity in your love making with your mate.
• Neither of you are very frisky in the bedroom any more
  The two of you probably spent more time getting on each other’s nerve during the day, or spent more time sleeping on the bed than making love or getting intimate. And when one of you try something different, it is almost always met with disappointment and disillusionment. You wonder if it were the same with other couples and secretly hope a miracle will happen to make sex wonderful again.

The above scenarios are often described by Sex / Relationship Therapists when counselling their clients. While some may encourage their patients to use novel tricks: games, sex toys, erotic fantasies, and so on, there were instances when the best form of therapy involved helping couples to re-define their sexual identity and roles and expectations.

The main problem, as some therapists explained, is that different men have different attitudes, sex drives, and varying erotic moods so there is no one exact prescription to reclaim their waning sex life.

Other factors, such as genetics, stress levels, and health levels, can also affect one’s sexual response, sex drives, interest levels, and sexual performance.

So maybe mutual masturbation is the answer, or maybe solo masturbation, or even swinging. Whatever the case, it takes both partners to agree to protect their intimacy together, or to take radical steps to ensure that they protecy their private intimacy properly so that they will continue to enjoy each other’s company for years to come.

In closing, perhaps this saying explained this thorny problem most adequately:
“Sex is like playing cards. If you dont have a good partner, you better have a good hand.”

Or in your case, have a Tenga somewhere handy instead. Wink!

The header of this article about Tenga can be mis-understood in many ways. For instance, there is little, if any, differences when it comes to sex and masturbation because the ultimate goal is to have erotic genital and pleasure of an orgasmic nature. So whether you achieve orgasm or an ejaculation by sex or masturbation is actually not that important.

And to complete the entire experience, Tenga offers a wide variety of lotions to make the experience unique and memorable too. See http://tengatango.ecrater.com for details.

So perhaps a lady’s response is very appropriate after watching the demostration video for Tenga:
“I now wish I had a penis.”

This short and honest expression implies a hint of penis envy. If the women feels that way, it is definitely a good thing. We love our penises and we hope you love yours too.